A couple hundred years ago, it may have made sense to live entirely in your feminine, take care of the kids and look after the house.
But in today’s world, women are doing it all. They’ve taken up the mantle at work, they are raising children, tending to the home, trying to take care of their health, their friends, their relationship, their own mental health, personal development – and they feel guilty if they’re not perfect at all of them!
This pressure often places women in a position where success, especially in business or their career, has meant tapping into their masculine, on a consistent basis.
This is all fine and well, but decisions come with a cost.
That cost may be your sex life, your level of personal fulfilment, your health, the relationship with your man, your children, your peers and your girlfriends.
What’s worse is that you’ve probably even tried some sort of “feminine embodiment” course, or read a book about it, but in the end felt like you’d have to trade who you’ve become today for an unknown version of yourself in the future.
You’re probably afraid that if you give up these masculine attributes, you’ll become some an outdated 50’s housewife that isn’t true to who you are
Trust me I know.
I’ve not only been there myself, but I’ve worked with hundreds of women from around the world in both my clinical and coaching practices.
Cultivating one part of you does not necessarily mean you have to give up another part of you.
In fact, what makes you as a woman so special, is that YOU are multi-faceted.
You also have the capacity to switch on and off the various colors of your persona in such a way that you can both conquer your career AND flourish in your feminine.
I’ve done this in my own life.
I was the classic early 20yr old who got her Psychology Degree, after a long, arduous period of study. I graduated, and then went to work in a high position in the Government. I was making great money, I bought a car, an apartment (both rare in the very poor country I grew up in) but slowly by slowly, I lost my sense of self.
By my mid 20s, I had all the material comforts, but I was deeply unhappy. I felt something was off.
2 relationships and some significant life circumstances helped change the course of my life and taught me lessons that I will impart on you.
Today, I am happily married, have been traveling the world, I run an online practice which helps women from around the world unlock their deeper potential and I am my most feminine, healthy and glowing self.
Even though you have the ability to switch from your masculine to feminine, a lot of women struggle to actually DO it effectively, leaving them in sexless marriages and at a loss on how to fix it.
The conditions of our lives and the world around us force us to adapt, maneuver, react and in the process, we lose ourselves.
We begin to wear mask upon mask upon mask upon mask. We learn habits which might be useful in the short term, but detrimental to our mental and emotional health in the long term.
These ones are especially hard to pin down and require a lot of courage, honesty and help to move on from. We are conditioned by society to behave in a certain way, and we are filled with shame about the desires we bury deep within us.
All of this confuses and distances us from our essence.
By Finding your Feminine, you will:
And much more!
There are great coaches all over the world, but few who have done the work as a vocation, had the clinical experience with people from different cultures in countries all over the world, and who have applied it in their own lives.
I’ve wanted to move in this direction for many years, but I had to walk the walk first.
I had to take everything I’d learnt, synthesize it and embody it in myself.
Now, here I am.
Ready to share it with you.
Ready to help you add color and femininity back into your life, and reignite the spark. Ready to save you years of precious time – the one thing you can never get back.
My name is Paloma (yes, like the Dove), but my friends call me “Moma”.
I graduated as a psychologist and got my masters in Couples & Sex Therapy. I’ve spent the better part of a decade helping women around the world better their sexual, emotional, professional and spiritual lives.
Now I want to help you.
Gaby Vivas worked with me earlier this year, and this is what she had to say.
“ Having work with Paloma gave me the satisfaction of feeling safe and understanding my energy on this earth. I now give a greater level of importance to my sexual pleasure and to my feminine energy.”
“ To understand that is okay be like this. To understand my feelings and emotions and that sexuality is important for any kind of field that you are and how you project that with your future partner. I feel ready for an intimate and tantric relationship, not before for the deep wounds from my past relationship. the way how Moma helped me to feel more present was a big plus.”
“ I really enjoyed having this process with Moma and that she made me understand she was always present in my life was truly admirable. Thank you Paloma for always being there for me and for letting me understand the beauty of life and for being my coach in this moment of my life.”
This is a program unlike anything else you’ve ever done. It will include:
The VIP Upgrade
Everything listed in the course above, PLUS:
1 Private call per month (valued at $1200)
Mon - Fri Private Messaging. like having me in your back pocket.
(valued at $1200)
A sneak peak at what you will learn and embody over the coming six months.
Through a series of exercises, we will identify your relationship dynamics, your biggest fears, your struggles, your pain points and how these are all impacting your life.
By the end of this module, we will have clarity on what is keeping you from having the the kind of success you desire in your relationships, sexual life and level of fulfilment.
This is where the education really begins. You will learn important concepts about the feminine, the masculine and their interplay, which is also known as “polarity”.
By the end of this module, you will have a thorough understanding of what polarity means, how it influences your relationships and your behavior, and what energies you’re drawing upon or showing up with, in different contexts and environments.
We take the concepts we learned in Module 2, and relate it back to you and your younger self. Here we begin to do the deep work. This module will take courage, but it will be liberating; beyond what you can imagine.
In this module, you will uncover traumas, wounds and scars and heal them by giving them new meaning through a series of powerful embodiment and psychological exercises.
We now build on both the healing of Module 3, and the concepts we learned in Module 2. We will spend time learning about and relating to our love languages, sex-drive types, and discovering our center-of-energetic-gravity.
By the end of this module, you will have removed decades of “energetic masks” that are getting in the way of your essence and your deeper source of energy. With that, you will feel a surge of sexual energy flowing through you which you can channel into other parts of your life, not to mention greater polarity with your partner. This is where things get spicy
Ok. So we’ve learned all of this. We’ve integrated it. We’ve healed. We have this newfound energy. Now – you have to learn the art of communicating from your center and communicating your truest sexual desires with your partner.
By the end of this module, you will literally begin to ‘speak differently’. A more authentic, powerful, integrated voice will emerge from inside you, that people from all areas of your life will be drawn to. You will find your partner, your friends and everyone around you, begins to tell you “you’re glowing”.
More practical in this Module – but this time, we’re working with the body. There is intellectual understanding, emotional understanding, and then the deepest kind; kinesthetic understanding. I will teach your exercises and rituals for your daily life that will help you truly embody your feminine essence.
In this module, you will learn to truly switch back into your feminine at will. Everything we’ve learned and done so far brings us to this point. Beyond just speaking differently, you will act from a place of greater authenticity. It will be in your walk.
So now we’ve transformed you. We’ve found the center, we know how to switch at will, when needed. You’re walking and talking with newfound vigor, desire and authenticity. Now we need to channel this power. We need to direct in such a way that it drives and enhances the other areas of your life.
This stage is tricky for many people. They get stuck in a single mode, so we will focus on making sure this feminine energy can be channeled into all of your pursuits,. This is where even things like “work” turn into a “divine play”. By the end of this module, your entire world will begin to align with your feminine essence.
Finances can be very masculine, but some elements are feminine. And this can get confusing. In this module, I will not only teach you how to switch and lean into either your masculine or feminine in different contexts, but more importantly, *how to know when* to use each.
By the end of this module, you will have a deeper understanding of how to apply everything we’ve learned, when to switch, and you will find something very few people find: Balance. But not the kind of “dead balance” where everything is average. The kind of balance that comes from knowing when to *flow* into and out of each energetic-essence.
We close out this incredible program by establishing or solidifying the vision for your sex, financial and professional life. We will do a series of exercises to integrate the entire program and bring it all to the one home that really matters; your heart & soul.
By the end of this module, and thus this program, you will have reached a place few women in the modern world ever have: An authentic, integrated career and love life, in which you experience the heights of success and the depths of true fulfillment. It will be a journey you will remember for the rest of your incredible life!
In Finding your Feminine, you will rediscover your energetic center and learn tools that will help you:
This work is deeply psychological, spiritual and in fact, feminine in nature.
This is a large part of why I’ve been called to do it. It’s not just my vocation, but exploring and reconnecting is a deep part of my feminine core.
Well, I’ve been having sex all my life and I’m an expert…
Naah… just kidding
I am a certified psychologist with a master’s degree in human sexuality and couple therapy.
Those are my credentials, but what has more value (to my mind) is the fact that I myself have struggled with losing touch with my feminine, being in my masculine & libido incompatibility in the past.
In this program I’ll share with you the structure, the mindset shift that I implemented in myself and my clients… and it WORKS!
My approach is both grounded and spiritual. I use a blend of science-based and soul-centered techniques to not only guide you but to help you awaken your own inner guidance.
“ Paloma is so amazing, is so kind, and have great energy and shes very understanding, she didnt judge me at all, I could talk to her about literally anything. With her program I was able to get to learn so much about myself and my partner, about communication, about my body, about energy and how it impacts your sexuality. I am very thankful for her and for the classes. I highly highly recommended her.”
“ I never understood what polarity was or why it was important. Learning about this and coming into my feminine completely transformed the relationship I had with my partner. They way we speak, the way we act, the way we make love - they’ve all changed for the better”
In their bid to succeed, many women have lost touch with their feminine essence.
It’s time to reclaim this, and use it to succeed in life without becoming empty.
I will take you on a journey to rediscover your feminine center of gravity, without giving up the qualities that made you successful in the first place.
Offer ENDS once the 10th spot is sold, or 3rd Dec, whichever comes first.
Here are more testimonials from other women I’ve worked with…
And you can see the difference its made